Sunday, January 17, 2010

False Hope

"False Hope", heard it not once but twice from my good Friend regarding a context,,,but somehow this did not sound correct or rather apt. I always believed myself to be an eternal dealer in Hope,,donot exactly remember from where i actually picked up that phrase, but one thing which made me survive all these years, and in fact this world to move ahead is "Hope".
So when is it that this Hope becomes a False Hope,,,Can any one guess in the pretext itself ? if the Hope would never be full filled and hence would be a False Hope,, or is it that after moving ahead with that hope, that we face the difficulty and conclude that it is a False Hope ?
If it is the Former one,, then the whole concept of Hope doe snot rise, it would just be an un attempted Idea which was never given a chance to be tried, and therefore is not Hope in the first place itself, , on the contrary what if someone moves ahead with that Hope ? when does that Hope actually becomes a false Hope ? Does withdrawing in between reflect a defeat or does it reflect the smartness to leave and move ahead in life ???
These are the questions which confront me and so does with many people around ? and need to say, i did not actually think i would end this topic with these questions, still lingering in my mind.
The one who said that and the context told, is of prime importance to me and now i really wonder what is the way ahead for me. I have always been a trier and i believe i never lost hope in what i wanted. There was never the concept of "False Hope", there was either Hope or a No Hope. But something i felt i wanted, i pursued and achieved. It was always a belief that if one has an Hope and keeps his effort to the right effect, there could never be a NO hope or a False Hope. and I prefer believing that.
Everything is possible for the one who believes, and hence i believe there would never be a "False Hope " in my life. If ever thee is something i Hoped for and could not achieve i better term it as a Tried and Failed attempt, rather than not attempt in the assumption of it being a False Hope.

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